The saying is true, hurt people hurt others. Hurt people hurt others. Hurt people tend to interpret words and behaviors personally and tend to think of themselves as victims who have been treated unfairly.
Hurt people tend to mistreat or act harshly toward others — especially those close to them — because those are the people they feel the safest and most secure around. They have trouble tolerating virtually any type of emotional injury, slight, insult, or threat without feeling the need to forcefully retaliate, which means they’re perpetually at war with someone most of the time.
1. Hurt people often transfer their inner anger onto their family and close friends
Often those around them become the recipients of harsh tones and fits of rage because they have unknowingly become the vicarious recipients of transferred rage.
2. Hurt people interpret every word spoken to them through the prism of their pain
Because of their pain, ordinary words are often misinterpreted to mean something negative toward them. Therefore, they are extremely sensitive and act out of pain instead of reality.
3. Hurt people interpret every action through the prism of their pain
Their emotional pain causes them to suspect wrong motives or evil intent behind other people's actions towards them.
4. Hurt people often portray themselves as victims and carry a "victim spirit"
Can you answer the following questions honestly?
1. What was the most hurtful thing someone did to you?
2. what hurts the most in your life?
3. What are some of the things that hurt your feelings?
4. Who hurt you the most?
5. Will you forgive the person/s that hurt you?
Don't be afraid to seek prayer and professional Counselling.
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